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What about those "rules" of dating? (2:46)

Dating for Men: What are women looking for in a man? (3:21)

Honestly Evaluate Yourself (3:03)

Dating is Not Exclusively About Marriage (6:51)

Have an Accountability Team (5:31)

Why Am I Attracted to Bad Guys (2:38)

Games Are For People Without Lives (2:44)

Get Over the Stigma of Dating Services (3:54)

Marriage Is Not For Desperate People (2:09)

Excuses About Dating Are Not Always Accurate (5:14)

When a First Date Deserves a Second (5:20)

Wear a Face That Says You're Open (4:57)

Be Flexible With Expectations (3:31)

How Friendships Can Turn Into More (2:15)

Do Something So Good Things Happen (5:50)

Habits Affect Dating (6:44)

Tell a Date How You Really Feel (3:24)

Being Yourself Is More Attractive (5:16)

Guys Need To Initiate (4:17)

Enlarge Your Dating Vision By Trying New Ideas (6:06)

Meet New People (3:17)

When It's Ok To Date a Non-Christian (4:07)

Obstacles In Dating (4:40)

Don't Wait for Your Type (3:52)

Don't Be Afraid To Get Rejected In Dating (4:07)

Responsibility and Expectations in Finding Dates (6:46)

Why is Dating a Serious Choice (3:26)

Sex Appeal Isn't About Sex (2:52)

What happens when you say "no" to sex? (1:47)

Fear Your Dating Past (2:43)

Take God Out on a Date (7:12)

Dating is Not a Cure to Loneliness (4:32)

Identifying "Relationship Busters" (7:51)

When two halves DON'T make a whole. (5:20)

Do Not Repeat the Same Old Mistakes (7:53)

Dating for Men: Moving out of fantasyland. (2:06)

The "You-Complete-Me Thing." (2:56)

Patterns of Ineffective Dating (7:19)

Establish Healthy Boundaries in Dating (5:53)

Symptoms that Your Dating Life Needs Boundaries (8:00)

Risk and romance. Who needs it? (3:50)

Take Ownership Over Your Dating Life (4:17)

The Great Fallacy in Your Dating Philosophy (8:56)

Good Reasons to Date People (6:35)

Is It Ok for a Woman to Pursue a Man? (2:41)

Beware When Opposites Attract (3:56)

Dating is Not About Finding a Mate (4:25)

When Should A Divorcee Date Again? (2:52)

Fall in Love With a Friend (3:49)

You can resurrect your dead dating life. Here's how! (4:30)

For the single person - how far is "too far?" Maybe that's not the question! (3:16)

Is it sex or is it Prozac? (6:20)

The sexual person - it should be you. (4:11)

Your fantasy person isn't just a fantasy... they're a train wreck! (5:13)

Take the dating challenge - keep a log and see what happens next! (7:10)

Choose the Right Date (8:28)

Look for the Right Things in a Date (6:47)

A Character Test for a Truly Loving Person (7:19)

Dating for Men: Learning to be yourself. (3:21)

Dating for Men: Tips to jump start your dating life (2:37)

Take life as it comes: Take control of the time ahead to bring about change in your life. (5:22)

The Reality of Cheering Up Depression (3:29)

Fictitious Cures for Depression (7:21)

Causes of Depression (6:59)

Depression Defined (3:25)

Resolving Depression (6:34)

The good parts of bad times. How some problems and challenges can be the best thing that ever happened to ... (7:04)

Your "relational termites!" (4:01)

The four people in every good relationship. (1:14)

Personal growth - get comfortable with "process" and forget about time (7:16)

Your ability to confront will predict your success in life. (6:33)

Define yourself: who you are and where you stand. (7:52)

It's not all your responsibility. Where it starts and ends. (2:31)

Orient Yourself Toward the Truth (5:34)

Reality Is Always Your Friend (4:28)

Integrity Is About Producing Results (5:57)

Embrace the Negative (6:59)

Be Able to Make the Hard Calls (2:04)

Delayed Gratification Builds Character (3:52)

Learn to Meet the Demands of Reality (4:05)

Develop the Ability To Create and Maintain Trust (5:26)

Examples of Trust Building through Connecting (5:26)

The Three Things Needed to Succeed (5:29)

Connection is not a luxury - it's the fuel of your life. (6:37)

Reality will help overcome perfectionism - especially for leaders. (2:19)

Partner With God In Overcoming Failures (1:59)

Be Concerned With God's Affirmation Not Others' (3:13)

You Are Not Alone In Your Failure (6:39)

Trails Of People Who Fail Well (4:12)

Define Your Goals (2:01)

Confront Your Personal Weakness (2:18)

Have Structure In Your Life (2:47)

A Successful Plan for Handling Failures and Obstacles (7:20)

Obstacles Are Normal (6:14)

Traits of People Who Fail Poorly (4:33)

God Is Crucial To the Outcome Of Our Dreams (3:21)

Don't Let Failure Deter Your Dreams (2:27)

The Fear of Failure Prevents our Dreams (2:29)

Our Past Fears Can Prevent Our Future Dreams (5:04)

Our Community Fosters Our Dreams (5:36)

Dreams Respond to Positive and Negative Voices (2:00)

Is Your Dream Based In Reality? (3:27)

Play the movie and watch the ending. You'll be ahead of the game. (5:40)

Create Growth in Your Life (7:37)

Serve Values that Are Larger Than You (3:52)

Learn How To Create Growth (1:06)

Adjust to Transcendent Realities (4:50)

The Last Word on Integrity (1:34)

Can you "fess up" to your weaknesses and assess your strengths? It's more important than you think - here's where ... (6:41)

Hand-wringing helps! How constructive worrying can be beneficial to your health. (4:20)

Pull the Tooth! Successful people deal quickly with negative energy drains. (4:44)

Consequences for those difficult people. (5:46)

The traits to avoid as a leader. Watch out for these in yourself! (7:17)

Leaders need the right "traveling companions" on their journey to success. (3:11)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Loving Support (3:41)

Learn to question authority. It makes for great leaders. (7:54)

The three characteristics of every successful leader. (6:36)

The Key Question in Servant Leadership (5:52)

Just say, "no." How to set limits in leadership (6:10)

Face the Reality Of Other People (8:56)

Tasks Are Not the Point Of Life (3:50)

Avoid Burnout In Leadership (5:28)

Some characteristics of the very best leaders. Who they are and how they got there. (6:00)

Face the Reality Of My Weaknesses (8:12)

That thing called "Trust." What it is and why it's important for you as a leader. (7:35)

How you can use "the outcomes" to evaluate yourself as a leader. (5:04)

Tips For Being An Authentic Leader (6:33)

Your character leaves a wake behind you. What's yours like? (4:55)

Don't explain it away - take responsibility! (5:23)

Good leaders attract the right people and frustrate the right people! (7:02)

The characteristics of a "relational leader." (6:44)

Lessons for Leadership Lifers (7:48)

"Relational-based leadership" isn't a luxury. The importance of valuing people. (6:23)

Getting to the hearts of those you are leading. (5:26)

It's okay and it's important to trust your gut instinct. It can be a good source of information. (3:03)

The 80-20 Principle (4:12)

Biblically Deal with Problematic People (7:14)

Healthy Practices of Leaders (2:21)

A Foolish Person Diagnosed (2:52)

Do Not Tolerate Evil People (4:07)

The Process of Dealing with a Fool (7:17)

A Wise Person Diagnosed (4:51)

A Healthy Leadership Immune System is Imperative (3:04)

Go the Distance In Leadership (6:43)

Finish Strong As a Leader (3:25)

Good leaders involve others and share the vision. (4:30)

Be a Leader Who Adapts (5:02)

The Principle Of Reality (6:43)

Face the Reality Of the Situation (4:38)

Face the Hard Realities Of Life (3:51)

What kind of leader will people trust? The answer will surprise you. (5:52)

Boundaries: Draw your property lines and see what happens next. (7:22)

Developing your boundaries skills in leadership. (5:11)

The best leaders have the best boundaries. (6:30)

Leaders Can't Make People Happy (5:07)

Deal with it! Toxic people, idiots and enemies and what to do with them. (6:40)

Fire! Ready! Aim! The path to making good decisions. (5:17)

Become a Leader for Life (6:20)

The Importance of the Authentic Leader (5:25)

The Paradox of Authenticity (4:34)

It is Better to Be Real than Be Positive (6:55)

Normalize Failure in Your Leadership Culture (5:35)

Qualities of the Authentic Leader (8:25)

Show them you value them! What to say and how to say it. (5:06)

Responsibility and accountability. Good leaders are responsible for successes and failures. (5:53)

How good leaders understand that authority cuts both ways - and they aren't afraid of that. (4:16)

The importance of the "humility process" and its outcome for leaders. (4:20)

An Authentic Leader Lives in Reality (6:41)

Leaders Need Traveling Companions who Provide Courage and Can Give Feedback (7:42)

"Relational leadership" makes great teams and leaders - but it doesn't just "happen." Practical steps to build from. (8:03)

Four regrets leaders have about working with difficult people. (2:20)

Credibility Vs. Happy Talk (6:26)

Suggestive Steps To Telling the Truth (4:49)

More Guiding Principles To Tell The Truth (3:48)

Guiding Principles To Tell the Truth (6:25)

The Big Problem In Telling the Truth Is You (2:05)

You Must Believe the Truth To Tell It (6:06)

Truth Telling Barriers (3:50)

Face the Reality Of My Strengths (7:00)

Beyond integrity. What else is there? (9:33)

Leaders Need "Traveling Companions" Who Will Provide Wisdom. (3:46)

Worry about the right things. (6:14)

Why we fight. The good news about those four main reasons. (5:20)

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in an argument. (4:31)

Good Fights - Bad Fights! (7:55)

When fights get "historical." (2:22)

The two pillars you need to support a good conversation. (7:22)

The two secret weapons for any argument. (5:14)

"You are not the boss of me!" Freedom and control in a relationship - you may be surprised by what ... (6:11)

"Getting to know you." How to get to each others' hearts. (6:03)

Better communication isn't the whole solution - here's what you need even more! (6:35)

How to help your children develop 8 character qualities that will make them healthy adults. (6:23)

Parenting Pitfalls: Overcoming the 5 major obstacles to creating boundaries for your children. (4:16)

"Reality consequences" work. Use them! (4:45)

Setting boundaries with teenagers. How late is too late? (2:44)

Apologize first and see what happens next. (1:30)

The Concept of Boundaries (4:11)

We Do Influence Others (3:48)

Respect Others' Boundaries (4:24)

The Importance of Accountability (2:44)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Seek Outside Help (6:42)

External Resistances to Boundaries (6:05)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Let the Bad Go (3:03)

Boundary Problems' Symptoms (4:18)

Handle Irresponsibility in Relationships (3:32)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Fail First (3:28)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Assess your Life (6:37)

The Difference Between Hurt and Harm (2:59)

Concede Control (6:42)

What Do Boundaries Protect? (6:58)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Receive Help (4:21)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Take Ownership (2:26)

Sowing and Reaping with Boundaries (3:10)

Verbal Boundaries (3:46)

Develop Healthy Boundaries: Say No (6:13)

Keeping Good In and Bad Out (2:58)

Internal Resistances to Boundaries (2:28)

Boundaries and consequences. How to bring about behavior change in others. (5:11)

Boundaries Require Action (3:16)

Life with a "Button-Pusher." Sound familiar? (7:21)

Your "button pushers:" Who they are and what they do. (6:29)

Time-proven ways to fail in dealing with your "button pusher." (5:07)

Time doesn't heal all wounds, but YOU can start the process in your relationships. (2:20)

The waiting game: There's a difference between hoping and wishing. (2:34)

Enabling. When it turns out YOU'RE the person who makes it all possible. (1:41)

We Have a Need for Freedom (4:05)

How Do You Receive Comfort? (3:08)

Humans Need Human Contact (5:32)

Families Need To Encourage Forward Development (2:33)

Experiences Affect Our Responses and Alter Our Choices (5:26)

Childhood Development Affects Adult Perspective (4:38)

Our Family Shapes Our Thinking (4:04)

Families Give Resources That Affect Your Personality (2:37)

The Need for Appropriate Structure (2:51)

"Need-And-Love-and-Give-And-Take" Spotting the problems. (4:20)

You have more power than you think when dealing with that difficult person. Here are some tools you can use. (7:10)

Be Emotionally Present and Available (5:37)

Two Ways of Falling in Love (6:54)

Good Reasons for Falling in Love (5:47)

Don't Control Your Partner (2:58)

Mature Expectations about Perfection (4:22)

Maintain Total Commitment (2:11)

Individuality is Healthy (4:24)

A Biblical Definition of Love (3:03)

Love Requires Need (2:35)

Purposes of Love (6:56)

Problems with Love (5:37)

Love is a Developing Process (2:41)

How to be a Loving Person (6:38)

Love Prevents Self-Absorption (2:45)

We Need Relationship Boundaries (6:15)

The incredible power of words. Choose them wisely. (6:50)

Why Our Past is Important (5:14)

Messages from the Past (6:30)

Predictors of Divorce (4:54)

The Past is a Foundation for the Future (2:39)

Our Past can Still Hurt in the Present (3:07)

Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress (4:56)

How Our Past may Affect Relationships (4:04)

How to Visualize a Boundary (5:57)

Denial doesn't help. Learn to incorporate the good and the bad into your life. (4:28)

Watch for change in that difficult person in your life. Some things you'll see when change begins. (7:20)

The two worst "compliments" you can give! (2:48)

The "Love Vocabulary." Learning what to say and what not to say. (6:25)

Timing Is Everything: When you say something is just as important as what you say. (6:38)

People are not projects - resist the urge to work on them. (5:44)

To accept or not to accept? When to affirm, when to push, and when to do both. (5:52)

Celebrate the differences in people! Why it's important and what you'll get from it. (5:15)

Why Values are Important (5:19)

The Value of Loving Others (4:49)

Happiness is a Result, not a Value (5:10)

The Value of Loving God (6:15)

The Values of Compassion and Forgiveness (4:40)

The Value of Holiness (2:43)

The Value of Honesty (6:34)

The Value of Faithfulness (4:17)

Absence of Ground Rules Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:25)

Leaders Share Their Weakness to the Group (3:22)

Help Groups Share Imperfections (5:28)

Specific Listening Skills for Group Leaders (4:31)

Non-Verbal Communication as a Group Leader (3:52)

Burning Questions Concerning Listening as a Group Leader (5:50)

The one relationship that will affect all the others in your life. (2:00)

Listening to Lead People Deeper in Groups (7:48)

Truth Focused vs. Life Focused Groups (7:41)

Four Ways People Hide Their Imperfections in a Group (2:38)

Honesty in Groups Opens People to the Work of the Spirit (7:08)

Leave your expectations at the door and you'll be amazed by what you find inside. (3:18)

Ask Better Questions in Groups (5:06)

Role Playing Good Questions in a Group (3:50)

Common Inhibitors to Authenticity in Groups (2:57)

Listening in a Small Group (5:19)

Role Playing Active and Passive Listening in a Group (5:46)

Use Reflective Statements as a Group Leader (2:46)

Interpret Meaning in Small Group Discussions (2:54)

Go Deeper in Small Group Discussions (7:58)

Connect with People's Soul in Groups (6:39)

A good look in the mirror: Get small and get humble and see what happens next. (7:07)

Practices for Helping a Group Share Imperfections (7:29)

Why Our Attempts at Prayer Fail (7:21)

Practical Ways to Begin a Prayer Life (3:01)

Grace Fuels Our Spiritual Life (5:25)

Even Movers and Shakers Can Be Still (5:20)

Discussion Killers in a Group (4:15)

Ask Probing Questions in a Group (5:35)

The Power of Questions in a Group (6:42)

Small Groups Are Not Classrooms (5:29)

Clarify Expectations and Enforce Ground Rules in Groups (5:32)

Barriers to Admitting our Imperfections (2:30)

Bad Group Experiences in the Past Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (8:06)

Help People Overcome the Fear of Self Disclosure (6:38)

Burning Questions Concerning Facilitating Spiritual Growth in Groups (7:42)

Fear of Self Disclosure Inhibits Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:19)

Unsolicited Advice Kills Group Discussion (5:42)

Ask Guided Questions in a Group (7:36)

How Do We Overcome Barriers Of Conflict? (3:41)

The Problem With Religion (5:00)

Give Up Being Independent (3:34)

How Do We Handle Dysfunctional People? (3:55)

Deal With Fear and Pain (2:38)

The Nature Of Forgiveness (3:25)

Can We Forgive Ourselves (2:57)

How Do We Understand God In a Fallen World? (3:49)

Reconcile Unrealized Areas In Your Life (2:30)

Grace Is the Ultimate Fertilizer (3:58)

How Is Guilt Related To Anger? (2:09)

Healing Takes Time (2:22)

How Should We Approach a Legalistic Church (2:29)

Too Often We Live Under the Law (5:49)

Pain Happens and Will Happen Again (4:00)

How Can We Become Honest Christians? (3:13)

Give Up Perfection (2:16)

Uncover the Truth of Your Problems (4:44)

Though Life Is Not Easy, A Promise Awaits (3:54)

What Is Life's Purpose? (2:13)

What If Your Spouse Is Not Interested In Spiritual Growth (4:02)

Unclear Community Expectations Inhibit Spiritual Growth in Groups (6:27)

Legalistic Versus Grace Based Small Groups Culture (8:28)

Poor Curriculum Inhibits Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:07)

The Challenge of Sharing Imperfections in a Group (3:09)

Honesty in Groups Promotes Healing and Increases Confidence (4:15)

Honesty in Groups Minimizes Pretending and Encourages Deeper Communication (3:36)

Barriers for Spiritual Growth in a Small Group (4:53)

Over-Spiritualizing Kills Group Discussion (5:06)

Burning Questions Concerning Transformational Questions in a Small Group (5:36)

Burning Questions Concerning Sharing Imperfections in a Group (9:14)

Connect with People's Passion in Groups (2:18)

Listen in a Loop (4:59)

Honesty Holds a Group Together and Fosters Emotional Well-Being (4:56)

God's ideas and my ideas. When it feels like there's disconnect between what you want and what He wants. (6:33)

The Aspects Of Reality (4:36)

Welcome to website (4:03)

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When it comes to dating after a divorce, I've heard that many counselors recommend one year of healing for every ... (3:26)

A man is pursuing me who is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober for 13 years (never married and ... (2:46)

How much physical contact should I have with someone I'm dating but not committed to? I wonder if even a ... (1:37)

A meaningful dating relationship has ended and I'm feeling emotionally drained. On the one hand I know I need time ... (1:35)

I am no longer married and would like to reenter the dating world. As a Christian I don't believe ... (2:44)

I am eighteen and in love with a thirty-five year old. He is very introverted and people don't understand him. ... (3:00)

I have been mutually attracted to this guy in my church for two years. We kissed and it changed things. ... (1:33)

Is it ok to marry for security and companionship if you are not in love? (4:46)

How important do you believe physical attraction is in getting a date? (4:23)

I'm dating someone who doesn't like to deal with any conflict. When a disagreement arises or something happens that results ... (2:23)

I have been dating a guy who says he loves me, but when I talk to his friends they seem ... (2:41)

I am in a relationship with a girl with whom I have grown to love very much. Must I ... (2:01)

My boyfriend's mother is bipolar. Her overall attitude on life is negative and she is always blaming others. ... (2:29)

My boyfriend is so busy with his job that he never has any time for me, or even himself. How ... (2:03)

If you have gone on a couple of dates with someone and the person is not a good match for ... (1:48)

How do you know when it is time to let go of a dating relationship?